Well, tonight I read a post over at Rosepetal's blog . Then I read the one comment that had been left. Then I saw red. It really ticked me off. At one point in the comment it read "I've never lost a child......" Oh. Of course. But you are full of advice on how we should handle our grief.
My anger didn't last long though. Because, lets be honest. I might have thought my advice was good "before" too. I probably still do it a little. You know, think I know about things, that guess what? I don't. I don't walk in those shoes. We all do it. We all think we have a good answer, or good advice.
Losing M, and hearing all those good answers and that good advice from "I've never lost a child......" people made me realize I didn't know what I was talking about either.
So why be mad? They don't know that they just don't know. And they are damn lucky for it.