tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5498447762327844508.post8595836939173764559..comments2023-08-21T02:29:13.411-07:00Comments on Broken Heart Diaries: What the dreams meanms. Ghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15263348912679823512noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5498447762327844508.post-37681046644535009342009-11-03T05:44:03.566-08:002009-11-03T05:44:03.566-08:00Oh, Ms. G. I just don't have words. I've h...Oh, Ms. G. I just don't have words. I've had dreams like yours, and I often think about "going back" in time as well. I don't know how to tell you how to grieve, how to pick up the phone and call the doctor, how to move forward. I do hope you'll go back to group.<br /><br />No one there, none of us here, will think you're a freak. It's a horror that you've lost another baby, but it's a pox on the universe, not on you. It's just so damn unfair. <br /><br />I'm sure you're a wonderful mom to A, and you remember M with such tenderness. Of course you're a different mom than you would have been. I understand the worry about providing a home of laughter for her, although I haven't loss two babies, I obsess over it for Baby Man, and am beside myself whenever my husband and I exchange words in his vicinity. <br /><br />many, many hugs to you, Ms G. I'm sorry.Sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03887313952590843057noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5498447762327844508.post-42628204265754542262009-11-02T19:03:12.972-08:002009-11-02T19:03:12.972-08:00I get it too. I think it's natural to wish our...I get it too. I think it's natural to wish ourselves back to a simpler, more carefree time in our lives. <br /><br />I hope you go back to the support group. I think it helps (but then, I'm prejudiced, I help facilitate one...!). (((hugs)))loribethhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09272814565916935113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5498447762327844508.post-24549525458372042632009-11-02T16:54:20.862-08:002009-11-02T16:54:20.862-08:00I think it's easy for me to tell you that you&...I think it's easy for me to tell you that you're not a freak for having lost again. But at the same time, I remember feeling that way too. I do pray that you find yourself again one day and that the pain lessens over time. <br /><br />Continue to go to the support group pr don't. Do what you need to do for you at the moment. <br /><br />I've added Baby G to the remembrance list on my blog. For now it's under Baby G but when you're ready or if you want, then I can change he name. <br /><br />Hugs my friend, <br />MonicaMonica Hhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14767867041043811045noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5498447762327844508.post-44851350317295807102009-11-02T16:53:50.849-08:002009-11-02T16:53:50.849-08:00I know a lot of people loathe to go back in time, ...I know a lot of people loathe to go back in time, even given what happened to them, but I'd love to -- just 10-15 years, and just for a few days. To remember what it was when my cares and worries were so different (and from today's perspective, rather meaningless). To have that body back, that attitude, that strength -- just for a few days.<br /><br />I get that.<br /><br />I hope you can continue to go to group and find some sense of release there.<br /><br />Thinking of you constantly.Tashhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07376651134993450207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5498447762327844508.post-19651117411734819792009-11-02T16:17:58.050-08:002009-11-02T16:17:58.050-08:00Oh, Ms. G. My heart aches for you. You are not a f...Oh, Ms. G. My heart aches for you. You are not a freak, here or anywhere. I wish you could have that carefree person back too. It's hard to process that you have to live with this forever. I have no suggestions about calling the dr. Maybe he/she will tell you something that will allow you to process it more. You need to grieve at some point. I think it will catch up with you eventaully if you don't allow it to happen it now. However, I can see why you don't let yourself go there. You are probably afraid you won't be able to put yourself back together if you allow the crying to start. I wish I could give you a big hug Ms. G. You are in my thoughts every day. I pray that you continue to find the strength to get through this.CLChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08030787972960755420noreply@blogger.com